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Candid talk: Author Janet Fine addresses the audience
at Oxford Bookstore as actress Moon Moon Sen looks on
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From being a treatise held in
awe, read with furtive interest and gifted with aplomb,
the Kamasutra suddenly got a new surge in sexplicity
with a national initiative by the Oxford Bookstore. A series
of five events under the banner of “Reading Kamasutra”
rapidly found the dust-jackets back on coffee table books
on the Kamasutra, just as much as it saw the dusting
away of prim veneers to reveal a society hungry to discuss,
dessicate and, uh, just do it.
“You cannot keep sexuality under
wraps any longer,” was the way Maina Bhagat, consultant
to the Oxford Bookstore, put it. Having crafted this quintet
of awareness sessions that had authors, actresses, theatre
and film personalities, journalists, advertising specialists
— a wide spectrum of Calcutta’s cognoscenti as participants
and presenters — it fulfilled a two-fold objective, she
felt. The need to give it an informative and need-based
stance and also to provide targeted material.
It perhaps did much more. For
what did take place was a scintillating and steamy set of
sessions which saw groups of gawking audiences asking a
lot of brazen questions and receiving equally forthright
feedback on matters of — shhh — infidelity, foreplay, pre-marital
romps, post-marriage anxieties, homosexuality, molestation
and who got more satisfaction out of sex: man or woman.
But more than bandying around statistics (including the
one that talked about Calcuttans having the highest incidence
of promiscuity from amongst all metros) the discussions
provided some unstoppered nuances of sex and sensuality.
Hushed whispers gave way to bold outbursts. And at social
gatherings where we went to post the events, when asked
what one was busy with at the moment, and the answer was
“sexual interludes”, people would perk up and want to eagerly
talk about that three-letter word.
So, when Janet Fine, an American
writer who has specialised as a journalist in international
cinema, but also equally writes extensively on sexual issues,
launched Lazzat un Nisa: The Pleasure of Woman, there
was an arousal once more of an interest in this 19th century
erotic manuscript, complete with positional illustrations
in the style of the Kamasutra. Fine, who lives with
equal facility in the US, Egypt and India, is currently
based in Mumbai’s Colaba, and has created a sort of Soho,
which she calls Coho — the Colaba-Cuffe Parade beat, where
performances are held from gallery to gallery. The book,
which has been rendered into English from an ancient Persian
and Urdu text, is naughty and playful and the translator
talks of the manuscript “being attributed with a special
magical sexual alchemistry to excite passion and sensuality”.
It is a kind of Chaucerian tale where the narrator is the
most virile man in the court of a Raja from the Deccan Plateau
in the Islamic year of 1296, a man called Harichand, who
journeys forth and does a discovery of lovemaking in its
most erogenic aspects.
But we shall go no further. Taken
out of context, what is winsomely wicked could sound puerile.
But it certainly stimulated discussion that went into the
depths of exploring the Mahabharata, which, one panellist
thought, comprised some of the most stunning departures
from sexual norms of our society. Where polygamy, polyandry,
yakshas, gandharvas, courtesans, dasis,
pleasure-slaves abound. The audience grew bolder by the
minute and even went into discussions of whether oral sex
was safe, not whether it was an aberration. The extent of
opening up was most evident in the session for teenagers,
where the panel did not look upon homosexuality as unnatural
but a matter of genes and a question of choice.
The Kamasutra, at the end
of the day, ceased to be the shock-and-awe text that it
had been perceived as by many people present. A well-known
yoga exponent who has been attending these sessions revealed
how he insists that his students focus on the four most
important texts that our civilisation has thrown up —Manusmriti;
Kautilya’s Arthashastra; Vatsyayana’s Kamasutra
and Patanjali’s Yogasutra — spanning the gamut of
dharma-artha-kama-moksha. In fact, he had no problems
with his daughter attending the sessions.
The concluding session was amazingly
crafted and entitled “Acts of Seduction; Words of Love”.
The selections from prose, poetry and plays were handpicked
to depict how their authors have made sex beautiful, not
pornographic. Rendered more dramatic with the use of candlelight
in some parts, there were pieces from the Bible,
Omar Khayyam, John Donne to readings from Anais Nin set
to Ravel’s Bolero, strains from the Phantom of
the Opera and even bits from Lolita set to music.
A book entitled The Sound of the Kiss got its launch
at the same time. You could say this was a multi-genic lift-off
for the whole sex and sensuality awareness series, one that
took some of the conferring from voyeuristic to value-based.
Not lust, but literature at its leavened best.
What the series of parleys did
was to make for clearing away the cobwebs of societal norms,
opening up areas of non-judgmental thinking and paving the
way for an easier access to consideration and contemplation
of matters relating to sex, marriage, the art or act of
living together in or out of wedlock; the nuances of lovemaking.
A new version of the Kamasutra,
freshly translated by Wendy Doniger and Sudhir Kakar, got
an airing. The 50-odd pages of introduction to this version
is probably what lifts it to new heights of empathetic scholarship
where the translator-authors describe the Kamasutra
as “a play in seven acts”— a work of dramatic fiction, as
“part of a literary climate during the first six centuries
of the common era when the erotic was associated with all
that was bright, shining and beautiful in the ordinary world”.
According to the new duo, the
Kamasutra combines all imaginable aspects of sex
with a closely observed sexual psychology and a dramatic,
novelistic narrative of seduction, consummation, and disentanglement.”
And hence, Sir Richard Burton’s better known version is
thought to be to mannered and padded, while the new one
brings out the objective through vivid, sexually frank English.
With a huge pride of place for women. The courtesan de luxe
— beautiful, talented, virtuous.
Virtuosity over venality. That
is what appeared to emerge from the talks. Altered attitudes,
from prudish to prurient, from a previous reticence to a
surge for revelation. Suddenly, everywhere the shelves are
full of How To manuals. No longer the scare of ungainly
sexual positions which only a sextosaur could perform. Here’s
to a new look at sexth sense, which could ease the generation
and gender gap.
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