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Hope is an unfamiliar feeling
where violence against women is concerned. Even an appearance
of change turns out to be just that, an appearance. In Bankura
recently, the eighteen-year-old daughter of a vegetable-seller
was raped by the young man of the house in which she was
employed as domestic help. Since she became pregnant, the
police, who had received a complaint from the girls
father, and the neighbours, compelled the young man to marry
her. Within forty-eight hours, her husband took her to a
quack who carried out an abortion. He has apparently disappeared
since, and his father, an influential man in the locality,
has returned the girl to her parents. He allegedly dismissed
the marriage, but said he would pay for the girls
recovery. This is a complicated sequence of events. The
initial act of violence is common enough, as is the power
equation it exposes. Women working as domestic help are
always at risk of sexual abuse. What is different about
this incident, and reason for hope, is that the violence
was not followed by the usual silence. The girls father
went to the police and some action was taken.
It is the action that was dubious.
The police and the administration worked towards an “understanding”
and the neighbours joined in. The offender was made to marry
the victim. Thus the violence was compounded by giving it
social acceptability through marriage. The question of punishing
the rapist by law was cunningly evaded. The offender’s superior
social position ensured that he would not be brought before
the law for raping a vegetable-seller’s daughter. For the
girl’s family, such a marriage was compensation enough.
It also saved the family from the stigma of harbouring a
raped and unmarried girl. The girl herself, and the violence
done to her, were never issues during the negotiations.
She had to be erased, got rid of, in the most decorous way
possible, with some lip service to justice. The whole point
was to leave social arrangements undisturbed. There is nothing
surprising about the outcome. By not bringing the rapist
to justice, the administration helped in the perpetration
of another crime. Without a complete reorientation of social
attitudes, the law will remain helpless.
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