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Swastika Mukherjee is a presence
thats hard to miss. You just cant go along any
of Calcuttas streets without her lovely face gazing
back at you — be it from a billboard advertising a mobile
phone or the latest film. Swastika is indeed one of the
citys favourite silver-screen divas. Her brush with
celluloid came quite accidentally when Tanushree Shankar,
from whom Swastika learnt dancing, wanted her to do a bit
role in the film Hemanter Pakhi. Incidentally, Tanushree
made that request first to Swastikas father Santu
Mukherjee who was also acting in the film. On a lark, Swastika
decided to do the role. What followed was her first break
in television in the serial Devdasi.
Swastikas debut film,
Mastan with Jeet as her co-star did well. She continued
to make her way to the top in Tollywood with a steady string
of releases. Though her last film Kraanti didnt
do as well in the box office, she is one busy actress with
plenty of new projects in the kitty. In the pipeline are
Shankar Rays Jeeban Sathi with Anubhav and
Manas Basus Rudra with Jisshu. Sudip Guhas
Sangharsh will see her paired with Tollywood top
gun Prasenjit. Bumbada, as she calls him, will also
be starring with her in Swapan Sahas Greptar.
And lest you think shes leaving anyone out — yes,
Jeet is her co-actor in Prabhat Rays yet unnamed forthcoming
film. Swastikas
father, Santu Mukherjee has been a well-loved face on our
small screen for a long time now. When mega-serials changed
the telly-watching habits of Bengalis, he was the face associated
with one of the longest running of them all — Janmabhoomi.
He has received acclaim for his roles in television serials
like Kokhono Megh Kokhono Brishti and Ekdin Protidin.
When not blazing his trail on the small screen, Santu also
dabbles quite a bit in Bengali theatre and his last play,
Bhalobashi Tai was a power-packed act.
Swastika:
My father has always been a very
even-tempered person and my mother, the polar opposite.
Shes always tense. But with my father, the more the
tension mounts, the cooler he becomes. As a kid I remember
being slightly scared of him. Though fairly easy-going,
there would be those rare days when hed get angry
and all hell would break loose. Actually, as a child, I
received my fair share of spankings. And mind you, all thanks
to my sister, Bubu. She would go on a rampage and then conveniently
flee the scene when it was time for Dad to come home. Unfortunately,
being the only one present, Id have to face all the
music. Of course, there were compensatory doses of pampering
after the realisation sank in, but the damage wouldve
already been done.
Now that weve grown up,
Bubu and I share a cool and easygoing relationship with
our father. He has even picked up quite a few words like
jhakkas and bindaas
from us, and tentatively uses these in conversation sometimes.
I remember when I started out as an actress, Id come
home each day bristling with excitement at all the slang
I had picked up at the studio. Id do a due transference
act on my father and get him to translate each swear word
for us at the dinner table. Those were fun meals!
My father has been a great source
of support and sustenance for me. In fact, as a working
parent, Id probably not be able to manage my career
this well, had it not been for the unstinting support of
my family. And Im amazed to see the extent to which
he pampers my daughter, Anwesha. She gets away with things
that my sister or I wouldnt even have thought of in
our wildest dreams. He is her greatest confidante as well.
But then again, thats to be expected. Bubu and I share
a wonderful, open relationship with my father. We tell him
everything without inhibition. I can say without a shred
of hesitation that my father has always been my strongest
source of confidence. Its only natural that Anwesha
has also imbibed that. Santu:
Swastika is my first-born child.
Unlike my younger daughter, she never gave me a days
trouble. But as it usually happens with the first child,
I was a nervous parent. I used to worry about the slightest
of fever and crying bouts. Naively enough, I thought Id
stop worrying once she grew older. But what goes unwritten
in the parenting book is the fact that as a father, you
can never really let go. As a matter of fact, as I age and
see my daughters growing, I tend to worry more about them.
Swastika was always a good kid.
She was soft-spoken, well behaved and very good at studies
as well. She was also very responsible towards her younger
sister and many a time even faced the flak for Bubus
misdeeds. It was a matter of great grief to me that my little
girl has had to go through traumatic upheavals in her life
like separating from her husband, for no fault of her own.
But I grew to respect her strength that unexpectedly showed
itself during those trying times. Swastika kept a cool head,
finished her studies and went on to build a career for herself
— something Im very proud of even though it had very
little to do with me.
Speaking of her profession, she
is gradually finding a foothold in the industry and often
jokes that we are her greatest critics. But she has that
drive in her, partly an offshoot of her sense of responsibility
as a parent herself. But what has made me most proud is
the fact that she did it all on her own. It was her decision
to take up this career and beyond supporting her choice,
we had nothing to do with it. She is where she is in her
career today because of her own hard work. Swastika has
indeed made me a proud parent.
Photograph by Bishwarup Dutta |